To be honest, most times they just want to be left alone to do their thing and to be themselves. That is the one line take-away. But here are 5 things that women really want:
Attention — This is a winner. The number one, golden rule for any relationship. If you get this right, you have got it made. Pay attention to the little things, to what she likes and what irritates her. Her favourite colour, her favourite shows, her go-to person in case of emergencies (this may not be you and there is no reason to be upset about it okay? Okay.) . The best part about this is you do not even need to do anything out of the way special. If you simply say the right thing at the right time, boom… you are set for a solid week or four.
Respect — Learn to respect her space, mood, choices, her entire being. She is a marvellous wonder of nature. She is capable of moving mountains, and most times, she will do it over and over again if she gets the right encouragement and see respect in the eyes of those closest to her.
Trust — She may look fragile, act fragile, but women have a spine of steel packed away for a rainy day. You believe in her abilities continuously, egg her on, and cheer for her. Trust in her and you will see the flower bloom into a fierce warrior.
Pride — Like any being, when you take pride in something, it flourishes. When you praise her efforts even if it is something as small as keeping her promise to exercise everyday for a month… you add to her glow. Your words of pride are very often bigger than any other accolade.
Love — Show her love, not merely in words, but in actions. The feeling of being loved lingers longer than the echo of romantic words. Write her a silly poem, call her at work just to hear her voice, drop by to see her… anything that will make her feel that she belongs.
Jewellery, flowers, clothes and such are material things that may bring momentary joy. What lasts forever is how you make them think about themselves, how you make them feel. You have the power to empower. Make a woman happy today!
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